No one has time to read an essay. Get to the point — who you are, why you’re reaching out, and how they can help.

A few tight lines > a giant paragraph.

A good test: Can they read your message on their phone and immediately know what you want?

Don’t make them connect the dots — do it for them.

Why them? What made you want to reach out? Mention something specific : a talk they gave, a role they had, something they posted.

This shows respect and that you did your homework.

Assume they’re busy — and make it easy for them to say yes.

Try something like:
“Totally understand if time is tight — even a quick 10-min call during your commute would mean a lot. Let me know if there’s a window and I’ll call you.”

It’s intentional. It’s low-lift. It works.

Be specific about what you're hoping to learn or gain. Don't just say "Would love to connect" — tell them why.

Want career advice? Want to understand how they made a career move? Need a quick gut check on a resume? Say so.

Vagueness is the enemy of progress.

Sometimes people won’t reply — and that’s okay. A thoughtful nudge a week later can go a long way.

And if it’s still silent? Don’t take it personally.

You never know — they might resurface later because you left a good impression.